So you have a hott girl laying in your bed and your about to do it. You know she wants it. And of course you guys are going to start off with the foreplay to get things hott and heavy. You undress each other feeling each others bodies as you go. And you are down to her pants. Now here is the little quiz for you. Do you:
A. unbutton her pants and rip them off
B. rub her pussy over the pant and then move inside the pants to begin rubbing her clit
C. make sure she is not having trouble taking your pants off
D. kiss her neck and suck her tits while doing B
The obvious (i hope) answer is D right? IT BETTER BE! Give her the pleasure first. She may be grabbing at your jeans and trying to pull them off but simply grab her hands and whisper in her ear "I want you to feel all the pleasure right now". She will be thrilled! Trust me on this. Any guy who does this for their women is like a god in bed. But there are some key things you have to consider after you tell her this perfect phrase.
1. Make sure she feels pleasure before you move on
Your in her pants and you're rubbing her clit. Make sure your rubbing it for at least a minute or two and then begin to finger her. If your girl gets more pleasure from just clit rubbing then by all means... Either just clit rubbing or now moving onto fingering you want to be sure she is wet and also continue kissing and caressing her. You also want to be sure that you are fingering/rubbing for at least 10 minutes. Now, why do I give you a time limit on this? Ill tell you why! Because there is nothing more annoying then having a man stop fingering you when you are just beginning to feel any pleasure. You may remove her pants after some good fingering and start oral if she and you both want to do that, but keep fingering/ rubbing her. You may increase fingers and roughness as time passes but communicate with her to see what she wants, what feels good, and what hurts. If she is shy about talking about that stuff ask her questions that only need a yes or no answer. Example: Would it feel good if I added another finger?.. Do you want it harder?...
2.Do not expect her to return favors (although she will)
She is grabbing at your pants now looking to return the pleasure you gave to her. This is important! Let her touch you but do not stop pleasuring her. You getting a hand cramp? Itll be worth it trust me. Be a man and do it even harder (if she likes it rough). The more pleasure you give her the more pleasure she will give you. Thats the unspoken rule. You want a blowjob tonight? Make her cum (for real) and that blowjob she only gives you once a year will be tonight and any other night you make her beg you to stop. It is more then possible to finger her while she is jerking you off. So why not? She will return the favor one way or another and you will be grateful you listened to me. There is nothing more annoying then a man that stops the pleasure once he thinks its "his turn". Wanna know why? Because women take a lot longer to cum then men do and to tell you the truth half the time she is faking it because you didnt pleasure her enough and she doesnt want you to feel bad. Avoid that from happening and make her fall to her knees with pleasure. Dont Stop!
If you stop before she feels so much pleasure she is begging you to stop she will:
A. Fake an orgasm
B. Rush through that blowjob you wanted
C. Rush through sex
D. Probably go back home to try to give herself the pleasure you didnt give her
If you give her pleasure she will:
A. Give you a great blowjob that she enjoys (if she is comfortable doing that)
B. Go home thinking about how great in bed you are
C. Actually cum for once
Of course I am making this into the extreme. You dont have to keep going until your fingers fall off but go until you know she is enjoying herself and then just a little more. Of course pay attention to her and stop if your hurting her and so on... but I dont need to tell you guys that. And have fun with it. It is not a chore. This is sex.
K
Thursday, October 6, 2011
Sunday, September 25, 2011
Wet Dreams
Have you ever had a wet dream? I had an amazing one last night. I cant remember everything perfectly but it consisted of very rough sex with a guy I dont even know! Of course, being a girl, I didnt wake up to a complete mess but I knew I had the absolute best wet dream I have ever had. I think its because I am single...
K
K
Thursday, September 15, 2011
Suck it!
Okay all you men out there, this is probably one of your favorite things in the world. BLOW JOBS! Woohoo! And although as a girl I dont see what the huge fuss about it is I do find it really fun, unlike most women. Now I am going to tell you a few secrets to get your girl to give you head more then the usual once a year. Now you might upgrade to once a month. Yeah I know I know you probably want one like everyday but to tell you the truth women can be weirded out or just not enjoy it. But none-the-less give this a try and see how it goes.
1. Grooming.
Grooming, grooming, grooming. How many times can I stress this. Now all women are different. Me, personally, I like men with no hair down there at all because if im going to go deep throat I do not want to come up and have hair in my mouth. I even told my ex to shave it all off and he STILL didnt. Major turn off for me. Some women like a little hair down there only for the look of it or whatever is going through their heads. When it doubt shave it all off.
2. Do not push her head.
If your girl is not comfortable going down on you or its her first time do not push her head down there. You want a girl that will never give you a blow job again? Ok go right ahead and push her so you may get her to suck it that one time. But dont expect it anymore.
3. Communication
Don't be one of those guys that never stops asking her for a blow job. In fact, ask her one time when you guys are getting hot and heavy and thats it. Now, depending on the girl this situation can be handled in different ways. Does she like it when you say very dirty things to her? Or is she more shy? Try this scenario:
You and your lover are making out and she reaches down to unbutton your pants. She begins to move her hand into your pants and then grips onto your hard dick and begins with the handjob. As things start to get hotter and you feel the pleasure of her hand down there kiss her deeply and passionately, moving your hands through her hair and kissing her like you will never get to kiss her again. Then move your mouth to her ear and start to nibble a little on her ear lobe. As you and her both enjoy the experience tell her...
WARNING: This is where the scenarios change.
If she likes a lot of dirty talk say something like-
"Oh my god! That feels so great. Come on baby, make me cum. Oh yes, I want you to suck it right now. Oh! Make me cum so hard."
Now in this situation you want to bring your lips right back to hers. If she wants to go down on you she will break away from your kiss and probably begin to kiss down your body. But if she doesnt feel comfortable or doesnt want to right then the kiss will allow her to still be in the moment, not stop the handjob, make her feel more comfortable, and allow her to think about your request without you forcing her. Win, win and you wont get blue balls that night.
If she is more shy whisper something like-
"Oh that feels amazing. Do you want to try licking it?"
This situation is a little more difficult because your asking for an answer. But if she doesnt want to she can tell you she doesnt feel comfortable and you should just accept it, give her a smile and tell her that's ok and begin to kiss her again.
I guarantee mentioning this once and not bringing it up again will make her think about it and grow to WANT to do it. Not because you want her to but because she wants to. And when that day comes you and her are going to enjoy it a lot more.
If your trying to get you wife to do it more often or someone you have been with a lot longer keep reading. Ill get to that another day.
K
1. Grooming.
Grooming, grooming, grooming. How many times can I stress this. Now all women are different. Me, personally, I like men with no hair down there at all because if im going to go deep throat I do not want to come up and have hair in my mouth. I even told my ex to shave it all off and he STILL didnt. Major turn off for me. Some women like a little hair down there only for the look of it or whatever is going through their heads. When it doubt shave it all off.
2. Do not push her head.
If your girl is not comfortable going down on you or its her first time do not push her head down there. You want a girl that will never give you a blow job again? Ok go right ahead and push her so you may get her to suck it that one time. But dont expect it anymore.
3. Communication
Don't be one of those guys that never stops asking her for a blow job. In fact, ask her one time when you guys are getting hot and heavy and thats it. Now, depending on the girl this situation can be handled in different ways. Does she like it when you say very dirty things to her? Or is she more shy? Try this scenario:
You and your lover are making out and she reaches down to unbutton your pants. She begins to move her hand into your pants and then grips onto your hard dick and begins with the handjob. As things start to get hotter and you feel the pleasure of her hand down there kiss her deeply and passionately, moving your hands through her hair and kissing her like you will never get to kiss her again. Then move your mouth to her ear and start to nibble a little on her ear lobe. As you and her both enjoy the experience tell her...
WARNING: This is where the scenarios change.
If she likes a lot of dirty talk say something like-
"Oh my god! That feels so great. Come on baby, make me cum. Oh yes, I want you to suck it right now. Oh! Make me cum so hard."
Now in this situation you want to bring your lips right back to hers. If she wants to go down on you she will break away from your kiss and probably begin to kiss down your body. But if she doesnt feel comfortable or doesnt want to right then the kiss will allow her to still be in the moment, not stop the handjob, make her feel more comfortable, and allow her to think about your request without you forcing her. Win, win and you wont get blue balls that night.
If she is more shy whisper something like-
"Oh that feels amazing. Do you want to try licking it?"
This situation is a little more difficult because your asking for an answer. But if she doesnt want to she can tell you she doesnt feel comfortable and you should just accept it, give her a smile and tell her that's ok and begin to kiss her again.
I guarantee mentioning this once and not bringing it up again will make her think about it and grow to WANT to do it. Not because you want her to but because she wants to. And when that day comes you and her are going to enjoy it a lot more.
If your trying to get you wife to do it more often or someone you have been with a lot longer keep reading. Ill get to that another day.
K
Tuesday, September 13, 2011
CAUTION!! Virgin: Be Gentle
One time or another we have all been virgins. Something we all know is the first time we have sex is scary as hell! So why not make this experience the best you can for your virgin lovers. When it comes to women that are virgins you must understand what is going through their head:
1. "Oh my God! The condom is going to burst open and get sperm everywhere and therefore make me pregnant! What am I going to do? I don't want children yet!"
2. "I am going to get STDs and have them for the rest of my life!"
3. "Its going to hurt. Oh no its going to hurt so much."
4. "Hes going to think my body is ugly."
Yes, I know. For all of you non-virgins out there you are probably saying this is completely ridiculous and you have gone so long without these concerns. Well when you first began these were concerns. Maybe not as dramatic as I have displayed but the point is to allow your girl to feel as comfortable as possible. Here are some ways to make sure all goes well:
1. If your not a virgin why not get tested to prove to her you dont have STDs and if you do... well your going to need to tell her and talk to your doctor to be cautious and protect her from getting it too.
2. Make sure she is as wet as possible and even then you should use lube. Take your time with foreplay.
3. Make sure you tell her how beautiful her body is over and over again. Tell her what about her body is beautiful. And if you think she is so ugly and you cant find anything beautiful LIE! Lie your brains out because if you dont compliment the body of a virgin she is going to be more shy and less likely to enjoy it.
4. Use both a condom and spermicidal lubrication and if you know the condom ripped change it! I know what you men do. Your in denial about a broken condom and want to finish. Well, do you want a child? Are you going to take care of them? Didnt think so.
5. Make sure when your penis enters her vagina you go very slow and talk to her through it. A good think to have under the both of you is an old towel because chances are she is going to bleed.
Some things for the girl to expect:
1. A little pain but nothing unbearable, especially if your man is doing his job right and getting you wet and using lube.
2. Either a missed period or a late period. Dont freak out when your period is a little late. Your probably not pregnant.
3. A sore vagina for a few days. Dont worry its not too bad but make sure he takes it slow and talk to him about what hurts and what feels good.
K
1. "Oh my God! The condom is going to burst open and get sperm everywhere and therefore make me pregnant! What am I going to do? I don't want children yet!"
2. "I am going to get STDs and have them for the rest of my life!"
3. "Its going to hurt. Oh no its going to hurt so much."
4. "Hes going to think my body is ugly."
Yes, I know. For all of you non-virgins out there you are probably saying this is completely ridiculous and you have gone so long without these concerns. Well when you first began these were concerns. Maybe not as dramatic as I have displayed but the point is to allow your girl to feel as comfortable as possible. Here are some ways to make sure all goes well:
1. If your not a virgin why not get tested to prove to her you dont have STDs and if you do... well your going to need to tell her and talk to your doctor to be cautious and protect her from getting it too.
2. Make sure she is as wet as possible and even then you should use lube. Take your time with foreplay.
3. Make sure you tell her how beautiful her body is over and over again. Tell her what about her body is beautiful. And if you think she is so ugly and you cant find anything beautiful LIE! Lie your brains out because if you dont compliment the body of a virgin she is going to be more shy and less likely to enjoy it.
4. Use both a condom and spermicidal lubrication and if you know the condom ripped change it! I know what you men do. Your in denial about a broken condom and want to finish. Well, do you want a child? Are you going to take care of them? Didnt think so.
5. Make sure when your penis enters her vagina you go very slow and talk to her through it. A good think to have under the both of you is an old towel because chances are she is going to bleed.
Some things for the girl to expect:
1. A little pain but nothing unbearable, especially if your man is doing his job right and getting you wet and using lube.
2. Either a missed period or a late period. Dont freak out when your period is a little late. Your probably not pregnant.
3. A sore vagina for a few days. Dont worry its not too bad but make sure he takes it slow and talk to him about what hurts and what feels good.
K
Missionary
Hey men and women out there! Who says the missionary position is boring? Next time you men are doing it with your woman and you know she wants to have a great orgasm that will be great for you too, put a pillow under her right around her lower back. Your probably wondering "what the hell is that going to do"? Well easy access to her g-spot! Raising her pelvis will allow your penis to slide in in an upward direction and as a result hit her gspot practically every time. Try it out!
Another great thing about the missionary position is that you can have a passionate make out session during intercourse. Its a win win. But men, remember, her mouth is not the only part of access on her face. Kiss her all over her face and neck. And if she is into the more rough contact why not bite her. Remember not to bite hard enough to break skin. Blood ruins the mood.
K
Another great thing about the missionary position is that you can have a passionate make out session during intercourse. Its a win win. But men, remember, her mouth is not the only part of access on her face. Kiss her all over her face and neck. And if she is into the more rough contact why not bite her. Remember not to bite hard enough to break skin. Blood ruins the mood.
K
Monday, September 12, 2011
Surprise! Im Wet!
When it comes to pleasuring your woman you must make sure she is wet. There is nothing more annoying then a man rushing through the foreplay for his own pleasure. I have been in a number of relationships in which the man just could not get me wet enough to even get any pleasure out if his touch. Why? Because he didnt care that there were two people in the room. So of course I gave him a quick handjob to make him cum and that was the end of it. I have a few tips to ensure that your woman will be wet and ready for action:
1. Dirty Talk
There is nothing hotter then a man whispering dirty things in your ear. Most people think that the women should be the only one to talk dirty. NOT TRUE! Women enjoy dirty talk as much as the next. Personally I love when a guy tells me how hott I am and how rough he is going to have me. Talk to her and take it slow so you dont freak her out. Some women are shy and like just a couple sweet words here and there. Others like the full blown stuff. When in doubt: tell her how beautiful she is and how hot her body makes you, Who knows, maybe youll get a little surprise. Your "shy" girl might turn into a sex cheetah.
2. Touch Her, Lick Her, Bite Her
This is very important. Your not the only one in the room you know. If you want to make sure your woman is having the time of her life, the breasts and the vagina are not the only places on her body. Women like to be touched ALL OVER! It drives me crazy when a man does not touch me, like there is a ten foot pole between us. Move your hands through her hair. Run your hands down her body and back up. Pay attention to her body language, moaning and breathing to really be able to touch her in the right places.
3. Passion
Woman are very mind oriented when it comes to sex. If someone is in the other room making quacking noises chances are she is not going to be turned on easily. But something all women fantasize about is being man-handled. Some, like me, go crazy when a man throws her against a wall and has his naughty way with her. Other women like it a little more gentle. But either way the passion has to be there. Your girl will be able to tell if you are afraid to touch her because of whatever reason. If you dont feel comfortable talking about it or dont know how to bring it up do what you think will turn her on and have her talk to you. Ask her! "Tell me where to touch you. I want to pleasure you so badly." If you handle it in the right way there will never be a time when your woman turns to you and says "Get your hands off of me. Your doing it wrong" So why worry about it?
K
1. Dirty Talk
There is nothing hotter then a man whispering dirty things in your ear. Most people think that the women should be the only one to talk dirty. NOT TRUE! Women enjoy dirty talk as much as the next. Personally I love when a guy tells me how hott I am and how rough he is going to have me. Talk to her and take it slow so you dont freak her out. Some women are shy and like just a couple sweet words here and there. Others like the full blown stuff. When in doubt: tell her how beautiful she is and how hot her body makes you, Who knows, maybe youll get a little surprise. Your "shy" girl might turn into a sex cheetah.
2. Touch Her, Lick Her, Bite Her
This is very important. Your not the only one in the room you know. If you want to make sure your woman is having the time of her life, the breasts and the vagina are not the only places on her body. Women like to be touched ALL OVER! It drives me crazy when a man does not touch me, like there is a ten foot pole between us. Move your hands through her hair. Run your hands down her body and back up. Pay attention to her body language, moaning and breathing to really be able to touch her in the right places.
3. Passion
Woman are very mind oriented when it comes to sex. If someone is in the other room making quacking noises chances are she is not going to be turned on easily. But something all women fantasize about is being man-handled. Some, like me, go crazy when a man throws her against a wall and has his naughty way with her. Other women like it a little more gentle. But either way the passion has to be there. Your girl will be able to tell if you are afraid to touch her because of whatever reason. If you dont feel comfortable talking about it or dont know how to bring it up do what you think will turn her on and have her talk to you. Ask her! "Tell me where to touch you. I want to pleasure you so badly." If you handle it in the right way there will never be a time when your woman turns to you and says "Get your hands off of me. Your doing it wrong" So why worry about it?
K
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