Fingering Annoyances

So you have a hott girl laying in your bed and your about to do it. You know she wants it. And of course you guys are going to start off with the foreplay to get things hott and heavy. You undress each other feeling each others bodies as you go. And you are down to her pants. Now here is the little quiz for you. Do you:

A. unbutton her pants and rip them off
B. rub her pussy over the pant and then move inside the pants to begin rubbing her clit
C. make sure she is not having trouble taking your pants off
D. kiss her neck and suck her tits while doing B

The obvious (i hope) answer is D right? IT BETTER BE! Give her the pleasure first. She may be grabbing at your jeans and trying to pull them off but simply grab her hands and whisper in her ear "I want you to feel all the pleasure right now". She will be thrilled! Trust me on this. Any guy who does this for their women is like a god in bed. But there are some key things you have to consider after you tell her this perfect phrase.

1. Make sure she feels pleasure before you move on
Your in her pants and you're rubbing her clit. Make sure your rubbing it for at least a minute or two and then begin to finger her. If your girl gets more pleasure from just clit rubbing then by all means... Either just clit rubbing or now moving onto fingering you want to be sure she is wet and also continue kissing and caressing her. You also want to be sure that you are fingering/rubbing for at least 10 minutes. Now, why do I give you a time limit on this? Ill tell you why! Because there is nothing more annoying then having a man stop fingering you when you are just beginning to feel any pleasure. You may remove her pants after some good fingering and start oral if she and you both want to do that, but keep fingering/ rubbing her. You may increase fingers and roughness as time passes but communicate with her to see what she wants, what feels good, and what hurts. If she is shy about talking about that stuff ask her questions that only need a yes or no answer. Example: Would it feel good if I added another finger?.. Do you want it harder?...

2.Do not expect her to return favors (although she will)
She is grabbing at your pants now looking to return the pleasure you gave to her. This is important! Let her touch you but do not stop pleasuring her. You getting a hand cramp? Itll be worth it trust me. Be a man and do it even harder (if she likes it rough). The more pleasure you give her the more pleasure she will give you. Thats the unspoken rule. You want a blowjob tonight? Make her cum (for real) and that blowjob she only gives you once a year will be tonight and any other night you make her beg you to stop. It is more then possible to finger her while she is jerking you off. So why not? She will return the favor one way or another and you will be grateful you listened to me. There is nothing more annoying then a man that stops the pleasure once he thinks its "his turn". Wanna know why? Because women take a lot longer to cum then men do and to tell you the truth half the time she is faking it because you didnt pleasure her enough and she doesnt want you to feel bad. Avoid that from happening and make her fall to her knees with pleasure. Dont Stop!

If you stop before she feels so much pleasure she is begging you to stop she will:
A. Fake an orgasm
B. Rush through that blowjob you wanted
C. Rush through sex
D. Probably go back home to try to give herself the pleasure you didnt give her

If you give her pleasure she will:
A. Give you a great blowjob that she enjoys (if she is comfortable doing that)
B. Go home thinking about how great in bed you are
C. Actually cum for once

Of course I am making this into the extreme. You dont have to keep going until your fingers fall off but go until you know she is enjoying herself and then just a little more. Of course pay attention to her and stop if your hurting her and so on... but I dont need to tell you guys that. And have fun with it. It is not a chore. This is sex.

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