CAUTION!! Virgin: Be Gentle

One time or another we have all been virgins. Something we all know is the first time we have sex is scary as hell! So why not make this experience the best you can for your virgin lovers. When it comes to women that are virgins you must understand what is going through their head:

1. "Oh my God! The condom is going to burst open and get sperm everywhere and therefore make me pregnant! What am I going to do? I don't want children yet!"

2. "I am going to get STDs and have them for the rest of my life!"

3. "Its going to hurt. Oh no its going to hurt so much."

4. "Hes going to think my body is ugly."

Yes, I know. For all of you non-virgins out there you are probably saying this is completely ridiculous and you have gone so long without these concerns. Well when you first began these were concerns. Maybe not as dramatic as I have displayed but the point is to allow your girl to feel as comfortable as possible. Here are some ways to make sure all goes well:

1. If your not a virgin why not get tested to prove to her you dont have STDs and if you do... well your going to need to tell her and talk to your doctor to be cautious and protect her from getting it too.

2. Make sure she is as wet as possible and even then you should use lube. Take your time with foreplay.

3. Make sure you tell her how beautiful her body is over and over again. Tell her what about her body is beautiful. And if you think she is so ugly and you cant find anything beautiful LIE! Lie your brains out because if you dont compliment the body of a virgin she is going to be more shy and less likely to enjoy it.

4. Use both a condom and spermicidal lubrication and if you know the condom ripped change it! I know what you men do. Your in denial about a broken condom and want to finish. Well, do you want a child? Are you going to take care of them? Didnt think so.

5. Make sure when your penis enters her vagina you go very slow and talk to her through it. A good think to have under the both of you is an old towel because chances are she is going to bleed.


Some things for the girl to expect:

1. A little pain but nothing unbearable, especially if your man is doing his job right and getting you wet and using lube.

2. Either a missed period or a late period. Dont freak out when your period is a little late. Your probably not pregnant.

3. A sore vagina for a few days. Dont worry its not too bad but make sure he takes it slow and talk to him about what hurts and what feels good.


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