Suck it!

Okay all you men out there, this is probably one of your favorite things in the world. BLOW JOBS! Woohoo! And although as a girl I dont see what the huge fuss about it is I do find it really fun, unlike most women. Now I am going to tell you a few secrets to get your girl to give you head more then the usual once a year. Now you might upgrade to once a month. Yeah I know I know you probably want one like everyday but to tell you the truth women can be weirded out or just not enjoy it. But none-the-less give this a try and see how it goes.

1. Grooming.
Grooming, grooming, grooming. How many times can I stress this. Now all women are different. Me, personally, I like men with no hair down there at all because if im going to go deep throat I do not want to come up and have hair in my mouth. I even told my ex to shave it all off and he STILL didnt. Major turn off for me. Some women like a little hair down there only for the look of it or whatever is going through their heads. When it doubt shave it all off.

2. Do not push her head.
If your girl is not comfortable going down on you or its her first time do not push her head down there. You want a girl that will never give you a blow job again? Ok go right ahead and push her so you may get her to suck it that one time. But dont expect it anymore.

3. Communication
Don't be one of those guys that never stops asking her for a blow job. In fact, ask her one time when you guys are getting hot and heavy and thats it. Now, depending on the girl this situation can be handled in different ways. Does she like it when you say very dirty things to her? Or is she more shy? Try this scenario:

You and your lover are making out and she reaches down to unbutton your pants. She begins to move her hand into your pants and then grips onto your hard dick and begins with the handjob. As things start to get hotter and you feel the pleasure of her hand down there kiss her deeply and passionately, moving your hands through her hair and kissing her like you will never get to kiss her again. Then move your mouth to her ear and start to nibble a little on her ear lobe. As you and her both enjoy the experience tell her...

WARNING: This is where the scenarios change.

If she likes a lot of dirty talk say something like-
"Oh my god! That feels so great. Come on baby, make me cum. Oh yes, I want you to suck it right now. Oh! Make me cum so hard."
Now in this situation you want to bring your lips right back to hers. If she wants to go down on you she will break away from your kiss and probably begin to kiss down your body. But if she doesnt feel comfortable or doesnt want to right then the kiss will allow her to still be in the moment, not stop the handjob, make her feel more comfortable, and allow her to think about your request without you forcing her. Win, win and you wont get blue balls that night.

If she is more shy whisper something like-
"Oh that feels amazing. Do you want to try licking it?"
This situation is a little more difficult because your asking for an answer. But if she doesnt want to she can tell you she doesnt feel comfortable and you should just accept it, give her a smile and tell her that's ok and begin to kiss her again.

I guarantee mentioning this once and not bringing it up again will make her think about it and grow to WANT to do it. Not because you want her to but because she wants to. And when that day comes you and her are going to enjoy it a lot more.

If your trying to get you wife to do it more often or someone you have been with a lot longer keep reading. Ill get to that another day.

K